tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post592310055366832449..comments2024-02-23T05:16:12.783-05:00Comments on VOICES FROM THE HEART: Mother's Day BabiesMona Riskhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-28310939208256501122013-05-20T07:35:55.605-04:002013-05-20T07:35:55.605-04:00When I originally left a comment I seem to have cl...When I originally left a comment I seem to have clicked the -Notify me when new comments are added- checkbox and <br />now every time a comment is added I recieve four emails <br />with the exact same comment. Is there a way you can remove me <br />from that service? Thanks a lot!<br /><br />Feel free to visit my weblog ... <a href="http://yahoodiary.com/blog/271192/how-to-get-a-very-best-online-registry-cleaner/" rel="nofollow">registry cleaner review</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-78114585710851577982013-05-20T01:37:18.249-04:002013-05-20T01:37:18.249-04:00Hi Mona,
Part of me would want to see him take her...Hi Mona,<br />Part of me would want to see him take her to court to force the paternity test, but only while the baby was very young. I realize his hope that she would return to him eventually probably kept him from doing that. Also, maybe he didn't want to be told the baby wasn't his. The doubt left him in a place where he could continue to hope she was his. The anguish of not knowing must have weighed heavily and taken a great toll on him over the years.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10005215075724810989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-86399842661026014122013-05-19T13:06:07.350-04:002013-05-19T13:06:07.350-04:00Excellent question and your new story sounds reall...Excellent question and your new story sounds really good too. I think it all depends on how much he loves her, and how deeply he may feel betrayed. Beth Trisselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13742049964476824594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-22996018138643435242013-05-18T23:34:25.571-04:002013-05-18T23:34:25.571-04:00Tough to decide. If he loves the woman, does it re...Tough to decide. If he loves the woman, does it really matter? Does he feel love for the child? That's what is important. The child has to feel wanted and loved. People adopt children and see no difference in whether the child grew from their genes or in their hearts.<br />Marianne Stephenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05277593485137508765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-84541016109372989882013-05-18T20:40:56.026-04:002013-05-18T20:40:56.026-04:00Well said, Ana. The child is often a victim, but h...Well said, Ana. The child is often a victim, but he/she grows up ignoring or hating the never present dad.Mona Riskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-72271948760476867962013-05-18T20:38:47.229-04:002013-05-18T20:38:47.229-04:00Hi Maggie, in real life, I was inspired by a relat...Hi Maggie, in real life, I was inspired by a relative whose wife ran away with the baby and never let him see him, but kept asking for money if he wanted to talk to his kid. He never re-married.Mona Riskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-26909180772749090752013-05-18T20:34:54.337-04:002013-05-18T20:34:54.337-04:00Yes Celia, it was heartache for him and the reason...Yes Celia, it was heartache for him and the reason he distrusted women after that.Mona Riskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-81451949863863665032013-05-18T20:33:36.766-04:002013-05-18T20:33:36.766-04:00I agree with you, Vamp Writer, and my hero tried t...I agree with you, Vamp Writer, and my hero tried to marry her but she refused. Please leave your email or a way to reach you.Mona Riskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-65534361956672559682013-05-18T20:31:15.377-04:002013-05-18T20:31:15.377-04:00Hi Mary, they were together for two years and she ...Hi Mary, they were together for two years and she told him she was pregnant, then: "she screamed she wasn’t sure Monica was mine. She was sleeping with two other men at the time." Mona Riskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-76916329295179105492013-05-18T19:51:34.172-04:002013-05-18T19:51:34.172-04:00In the age of equality of the sexes, the victim is...In the age of equality of the sexes, the victim is often the child. I think the father deserves the results of a paternity test--and access to his child. Still, all he can do is be there, stay strong, until the child might want a relationship independent of mom.<br /><br /><br />Ana Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12325215832587691886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-62083849689972666832013-05-18T15:51:26.941-04:002013-05-18T15:51:26.941-04:00There is certainly always anything new to learn wh...There is certainly always anything new to learn while in the dentistry field.<br />Appreciate all the excellent resources.<br /><br />Take a look at my site: <a href="http://www.e-plc.gr/moodle/user/profile.php?id=21471" rel="nofollow">dental pro 7 ingredients</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-8650283223202729992013-05-18T15:50:11.250-04:002013-05-18T15:50:11.250-04:00I think he did the best he could. He wanted to be ...I think he did the best he could. He wanted to be there for the mom and the baby, and the mom threw his offer back in his face. It must be so painful to have such heartbreak in your life, to know you have a child and can't have access to it.Maggie Toussainthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12011893139722870283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-70860783810354722482013-05-18T15:36:46.479-04:002013-05-18T15:36:46.479-04:00Mona--I don't know what to say. If she blurted...Mona--I don't know what to say. If she blurted it out like Jennifer did, well, I think I'd back off. It would be tricky for the man. If he walks away, he may be seen as cruel and cold. If he pays up and hangs around, I say he's just asking for heartache. Not knowing would be the crux of the problem...tough question, for sure. I don't know what he should do.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16272417114895975742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-21748228618482611902013-05-18T15:33:19.124-04:002013-05-18T15:33:19.124-04:00This fellow wanted a family, even asked for a pate...This fellow wanted a family, even asked for a paternity test. She ran off, so if there is a "wrong" done I'd say she did it. I think women would have a better opinion of us if men behaved properly, in this case I think he did. If a man is truly in love with a woman and the baby might be his, I think he must do all he can to find and try to convince her to marry him so he can care for them both. It might not work out but at least he needs to do his best to make it work.Vamp Writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08126630095173460665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-20346705655050384722013-05-18T15:32:36.732-04:002013-05-18T15:32:36.732-04:00I agree. Does he love the mother? That is importan...I agree. Does he love the mother? That is important, and the circumstances that made him think the kid was his. Mary Marvellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12015719890476028848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-64721778937842986582013-05-18T15:16:27.647-04:002013-05-18T15:16:27.647-04:00Hi Melissa, thanks for the answer. How we wish all...Hi Melissa, thanks for the answer. How we wish all men were gentlemen.Mona Riskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923883333893160794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-588376429247025873.post-18134594577049553572013-05-18T09:37:00.867-04:002013-05-18T09:37:00.867-04:00I think that if the guy is a stand up guy and love...I think that if the guy is a stand up guy and loves the woman, it wouldn't matter. He should offer to love her and her baby, no matter what!<br /><br />Melissa<br />daringzoey@yahoo.comMelissa Keirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10247037321769755660noreply@blogger.com