Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Lessons We Learn

Where do you learn compassion from? As a child my parents tried to teach compassion to us, teaching us to do the right thing. Yet as we grow and life circumstances change our view on things, compassion sometimes isn't foremost in our mind. What has hit me in the last few days is that there is always a lesson we can learn from our children. One night at the dinner table, my oldest daughter asked if a friend of hers could spend the night at our house. Apparently he had left his mom's house and was sleeping in his car.

Now I'm not against taking kids in -- however, I do question why they have left their house and what is going on with them. My household has rigid rules and yet I find that we always have a lot of extra kids around just to hang out. After a lengthy discussion with my daughter, we discussed how years ago she had stood by this same friend when he was removed from his mom's house due to abuse from his brother. She continued their friendship when he moved out of state and when he finally came back home. Now as they are seniors she still longs to take care of people. She has always had a kind heart.

So agreeing, we have a visitor for the night and again the next night. I look at my children, thinking that something right must have been instilled in them. They know the right thing to do and how to be a good friend to someone.

What lessons do you learn from your children or even young adults you may know? Do we take this lessons for granted or do we allow them to touch our lives, allowing ourselves to learn and grow in our own lives.

6 comments:

Mona Risk said...

What a wonderful post, Emma. You have a generous daughter. I am sure you are proud of her.

When I play with my little granddaughters, I wish I had their simplistic way to look at life and laugh. It doesn't take much to make them smile.

Joanne said...

Beautiful values, Emma. You and your husband obviously are doing something very right.

My 15 year old daughter just got a lifeguarding job, and wants to donate $5.00 from each of her paychecks to our local shelter. We were very pleased and supported her decision.

Tarot By Arwen said...

Children teach me to laugh and seek joy. They don't have the self-imposed restraints so much. Loved this post.

Jill James said...

Emma, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, so I'm pretty sure she learned compassion at your knee.

It was really nice she wanted to help a friend.

Paisley Kirkpatrick said...

I learned strength and how to face the hardtimes with dignity from my older daughter who lost her fight against cancer eight years ago today. Never did she complain or give up through her fight and taught me that I am a lot stronger than I thought. Now in her honor I share what she taught me to others who have a fight to face. She is truly and inspiration to me and her father.

Emma Leigh said...

Thank you all for stopping by. It's great that we can be inspired by our children.