Christmas is my absolute favorite time of the year. Decorating the tree with family around, buying presents for your loved ones with anticipation of seeing their faces upon opening said gifts, baking, Christmas movies and music.....I could go on and on.
This year is a little different for me. My oldest daughter is away at college, therefore not home to help decorate the tree. Due to several financial issues, the gift buying is minimal. We did get the tree decorated and some holiday baking started. The Christmas movies have been on nightly and music playing on my trek back and forth to my day job.
However, as I reflect on past years and what has been important to me through the holidays, I struggle this year due to the family not being together. This past year has been a tough year for my family with separation, financial issues, etc. As I reflect on what's important, I realize I don't care about the gifts, even the holiday baking, movies, music. The one thing that is most important to me is having my family together for this occasion. To be surrounded by ones you love is the magic of the season. A husband holding you close as you want kids open presents, kids glowing because of the fun. It's infectious. I love seeing my children anxiously awaiting a sibling to open a gift from them, just dying to see if they are thrilled with it.
In our household for as long as I can remember Christmas starts at anytime after two a.m. Yes, we actually get up at two a.m. and start opening presents. Santa is usually very generous in bringing a family movie to watch when the presents are done, and then breakfast with the grandparents starts the process all over again.
Yes, Christmas is my favorite time of the year and this year all I want for Christmas is for my family to be together, (and maybe a netbook for my writing.)
Emma, you are right. Christmas is more about family and loved ones being together and celebrating a religious holiday, then buying presents and enhancing retail stores business. But Christmas will not be the same this year, with my mother gone.
Mona, thanks for stopping by. I'm sorry about your mom, however I am sure you have plenty of happy memories of the holidays with her. My thoughts are with you on this holiday.
Emma, I got a netbook for Christmas (got it early!!) Awesome. All I want for Christmas is for my Army son to get leave to come home for the holidays.
Thanks for sharing. The best Christmas memories go far beyond retail. They are of families and friends coming together and enjoying the fellowship of each other's company.
I won't be able to be with my family for the third holiday in a row. It's painful. Enjoy being able to get and give hugs to those you love.
As Mona said, this year will be a new beginning for me because my mother is gone. Dad died several years ago, so this year is the first with no immediate family around me. Enjoy your family times and gather those memories to hold them close!
I always loved the decorating and seeing the excitement on the girls' faces. We make fruitcakes to give to people in our community who've been kind to us during the year and when the girls were small we made sugar plums. They were a sticky situation, but tasted so good.
What a beautiful post, Emma! Have a wonderful holiday!
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