I believe we usually find what we expect to find. My vision included battling off muggers with all the techniques I learned in self-defense class, keeping my purse close to avoid purse snatchers, and jumping out of the way of speeding taxis. With that in mind, I was worried about my trip to the Big Apple. Some people talk about being from the sticks in a joking way because their city is smaller than many, but I am from the sticks. My birthright as Indiana born and farmer’s daughter makes me a walking cliché. Even when my sister moved to the big city of Indianapolis, she asked me not to talk too loud or say “ya’all” because that would mean she might somehow be connected to countrified me.
Going to the RWA conference excited me, but the thought of traveling terrorized me because I’d heard every bad story out there. I really expected to be mugged. With that in mind, I gave my Significant Other a fake wallet to carry to give to the mugger. LOL. Now some of you think I am a total bumpkin, but I have walked the streets of London, Dublin, Paris, and Rome without any fear. No one got around to telling me bad stories about those cities.
My second greatest fear besides being mugged was airport security. Only a week before some story broke about an elderly cancer patient having to remove her adult diaper. Most of the time I flew through the security lines without even being scanned or patted down. In Chicago, I was pulled out of the line by a young TSA worker who informed me I did nothing wrong, but I looked like the type not to fuss. The man didn’t even ding me about the bottle of water in my purse.
While the airports bustled, the employees still managed to be polite and helpful. One food service cashier in Dulles Airport reached in her purse and gave me two Band-Aids when I asked where I could buy some, probably saving me at least two dollars. When we boarded the plane and found our seats were not together fellow passengers willing moved around my SO and I could sit together.
My third fear was looking like a hick from Indiana. That was harder to overcome since that is what I am. Trust me; I brought an entire wardrobe, which included night and day outfits with coordinating shoes. If transporting large numbers of shoes across the state lines was suspicious activity then I was guilty. Remember the Band-Aids; those were because I wore heels in the airport, and new ones. Who knew I would board a series of small planes that loaded on the tarmac. That’s what you get when you fly cheap.
If I had a fourth fear, it had to be transportation. Some kind soul in FTH suggested Carmel Limo service. If you paid ahead, it was only about forty dollars to get a nice clean limo and a polite driver. Most of the time, we used our feet to get everywhere. The one day we decided to use the subway a Mariachi band surprised us by playing as they traveled from car to car. I dare anyone to be unhappy listening to Mariachi music.
The one moment I experienced a twinge of panic was when we got jumbled up in the opening of the Transformer’s movie. Wall to wall solid people and the perfect place for a pickpocket I thought. The normal person might think I’ll wait until it passes, but I wanted to get back to the hotel because of the FTH reception. With a deadline looming, I used my Army training, but mainly my high school teacher skills to weave through the crowd dragging my SO behind me.
In retrospect, my fears were all groundless. No matter where we went, everyone was very nice. One vendor in Chinatown did hand me a pamphlet on losing weight that I didn’t like, especially since I had been gobbling down every delicacy NYC possessed. Overall, nothing bad happened. No mugging, even had a street vendor lower his prices when it looked like I wasn’t buying. Being from Indiana, I wanted to point out that wasn’t the price on the placard, but I didn’t. Actually, I tried, but we had accent conflict so I took the price he gave me.
Ironically, I expected a meeting with muggers, runaway taxis, and con artists. Truthfully, I may have encountered more con artists if traveling alone because I do have gullible stamped on my forehead, which explains the ivory bracelet I bought outside the Louvre in Paris. Yes, it was real, as in real illegal. My first impression was the man needed to support his family by selling costume jewelry. As a recent immigrant, he had a hard time getting a job and had several children. His mother was sick too. Obviously, my SO was not traveling with me then.( A few of you may wonder what happened to the bracelet, I wore it through customs, then promptly gave it to my sister whose son works in customs. He’ll have to confiscate it from his mother.)
This time I did not find what I expected, which was a good thing. Have any of you had trips turn out differently than you originally expected?
I didn't go this year. Haven't gone for a few years, and may not go for a few more. Very pricey and often inconvenient for me to get to.
